Gray Hairs Are Like Invasive Plants

Gray hairs are like invasive plants. Once you get one rooted, you just can’t get rid of them.

As I read Carol’s delightful May Dreams post about having to pull her “Snow-in-Summer” plants to save her Geraniums, I realized how uncomfortably close it struck to home. Beautiful white flowers that are taking over her garden bed… much like the gray hairs that have become rather abundant on my head. If I attacked my gray hairs by pulling them out by the roots, I’d look like… no, that’s an image I just don’t want to imagine. Perhaps I did the first one I found, many years ago. Is that what started this aggressive take-over of my native roots?

I ponder often the dilemma of being natural in the face of invasives. I love the feel of a peaceful woodland setting, native plants growing wild. But that approach clearly didn’t work in my pre-gardening days. The weeds and invasives too easily too over the yard. In order for my yard to be “natural,” I’ve had to remove unwanted plants and purchase and plant native ones. And as I find my greener nature, I long to be free of the desire to color my hair. Let it grow out, be natural. Grow wild, like I want my yard to do. But if I do, I realize I am going to look a lot more like “Snow-in-Summer” than this 40-year-old might be able to handle. 

What’s one person’s weed is another person’s flower, right? Wildflowers are gorgeous to some, weeds to others. There are even butterflies that like poison ivy. I’m trying to embrace the gray hairs on my head as beautiful. Much like my garden beds full of baby plants, it will probably be easier to truly admire them once they’ve grown for awhile. Maybe I’ll just say I’m turning into a Gray Hairstreak Butterfly!  

I garden like I cook

It’s the messiest process. When I cook a big meal or bake something yummy, I manage to use every dish, utensil, and bit of counter space available. When I garden, I cover every inch of me in dirt and spread all my tools across the yard. I’m not sure how it happens. It just does.

The algae… it’s a-bloomin’

I know that part of the natural process of establishing a healthy pond is going through an initial algae bloom, but all the same it’s a bit of a shock to see it.

algaebloom2.jpgI hope that it’s not going to get worse before it gets better. I rushed right out today to get more aquatic plants to hog the nutrients in the water. The local pond nurseries are going through a shortage of the submerged plant called Hornwort, but Emerald Gardens had some healthy new anacharis, so I headed right down. It was my first time to the store, and I’m glad to report that they have a good selection of pond plants to choose from. I didn’t get too many pictures at the store (I have kids, and it was hot), but I enjoyed walking through.

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They, of course, have a variety of both native and non-native plants. I saw quite a few beautiful plants that I have a suspicion would not be found in a xeriscaped garden. The main attractions, though, were the ponds, and they were plentiful and very lovely. Did I get pictures? Nope. Next visit!

There was a very cool and very tall plant — it wasn’t labeled, but check out this stem:

coolstem06-05.jpgI picked up some anacharis, a small maidenhair fern, and this dwarf papyrus. It was big, healthy, and hard to resist. 

dwfpapyrus06-05.jpgOn the way home (read: detour), I stopped by Natural Gardener to see if they had some horsetail reed (Equisetum hyemale) (they had some at Emerald Gardens, but I was looking for an excuse to go to NG). I should have gotten some at Emerald Gardens, because NG currently only had the giant horsetail in the 1-gallon size I was looking for. But I did buy a Texas Star Hibiscus (Hibiscus coccineus) for the pond. I love how the leaves change in appearance as they mature.

Txstarhibiscus06-05.jpgI also went a little crazy and bought several other 4-inch plants to fill up the gaps in my butterfly/hummingbird garden. I usually try so hard to go mostly native, but I ended up gleefully giving in to an assortment of drought-tolerant plants — some native, some not — that I’ve always wanted but hadn’t ever bought, or perhaps didn’t buy enough of: gayfeather, bat-face cuphea (ok, turns out that one perhaps needs more water than it’s likely to get), cigar plant, white gaura, pink gaura, rock rose, and some extra milkweed. I accidentally bought some bee balm — which seems to require moisture, so it might get put over by the air conditioner, pond, or in a container. And I bought a small dwarf bottlebrush (from Emerald Gardens) to go in the container left empty after the dogs ate the dwarf pomegranate.

plantasstmt06-05.jpgI am determined to have a healthy garden for monarchs, queens, and other butterflies. My current plants were just not doing as well as I’d like, though — the aphids took their toll this year. I went too long without removing those nasty pests, and the ladybugs had poor timing. I hesitate to show these pictures of my suffering milkweeds after Fairegarden showed such gorgeous pictures yesterday of Butterfly weed, Asclepias tuberosa, complete with butterflies. But she inspired me to go inspect my related plants, Asclepias curassavica, and ugh, they seemed so stunted because of the aphids. Hose came out, I washed the aphids off, at least until I found a ladybug feasting–those aphids stayed. And so I bought a couple of healthy ones from Natural Gardener to add in, just cause. 

aphidsonmilkweed06-05.jpgI’ll finish with a lovely rock rose (Pavonia lasiopetala) that already looks perfect next to the limestone rocks of the pond, and it’s not even in the ground yet!

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Trying to fix comments in Movable Type

I’ve had a couple of people tell me that they tried to leave comments on my blog but it’s not letting them. I’m not sure why my blog is being on the stubborn side — it sure looks like people should be able to get through to leave comments. So I’m trying to figure it out, newbie that I am (read — asking a friend to help me before I mess something up). The easy fix scares me, which is to completely open it up to Anonymous, which means bot spam could get through, I think — so maybe I can do a CAPTCHA plug-in?

Anyway, working on it — don’t give up on me. If you have any suggestions for how to set up comments on Movable Type blogs, I welcome them. Hopefully you can manage to get through here, or find me on Blotanical. In the meantime, I’ll stumble my way through MT documentation…

If you build it, they will come….

School got out for the summer yesterday, and the boys look forward to a summer of relaxing and doing whatever. But I do want to encourage them to work on their writing skills — with all this era’s wonderful computer and Internet advantages, the good old-fashioned “sit with a pencil and write” seems to have been lost, at least with my kids. So this summer, with journals in hand, we are going to write a little each day. Stories, poems, books, thoughts — whatever inspiration leads us to. Remarkably, the boys haven’t groaned too much about it!

And after school let out yesterday, we welcomed new visitors to our yard. We’ve seen many a toad in the yard from time to time, but yesterday the male toads found the new pond. Three of them set up at strategic spots on the pond rocks and croaked. And croaked. And croaked. We saw two of them — the third was clever enough to croak AND stay out of sight. We didn’t witness any mass migration of female toads to them, but those males sure tried to entice them. I really like how all three toads croaked at different pitches. I fell asleep with the window open, just listening to them…

For our morning journals, we decided to all write garden poems. I’ll admit we were all sort of groggy when we attempted this…

 

Call of the Summer Wild,
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by Meredith

Sun rising
Birds chirping
Good morning, summer, all

Kids running
Playing hard
Will their mom stay sane

Dogs wrestling
In the yard
Splashing in the dog pond

Butterflies
Flutter by
Flowers growing tall

Grasshoppers
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My zinnias RIGHT NOW

Sun is hot
Ack, more weeds
Compost, cactus happy

In the night
Bull-toads croak
Seeking their true love

And eating mosquitoes. YAY.

 

 

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Garden poem, by Nolan

Birds, birds flap their wings
Birds can do almost anything

Our pond is great
We found toads that might mate
We cannot wait

Butterflies, butterflies everywhere
But we care

 

 

 

 

 

My backyard, by Logan

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While my dogs run fast.
The garden’s filled with plants,
The perfect home for the
   common ant.
When the dogs meet a skunk
    it really
Sprays them well,
And when the dogs do come in
I really hate the smell.
My backyard’s a habitat
For animals thin and small
But watch out when it’s dark,
For the dogs might startle you
With a sudden bark.

 

Today’s Green Smoothie

Bananas

Organic strawberries, with the tops still on

Rice milk

Soy yogurt (blueberry, with live cultures — but almost any flavor yogurt will do)

Organic carrot greens (the tops)

A bit of agave nectar

 

Use whatever quantities suit your taste. Blend together — drink! Be sure to buy organic strawberries — or grow at home — conventional strawberries are right up there in pesticide retention! Bananas are safer for conventional because of the rind, but why accept pesticides? I’m not sure about carrots, but I’d have to think that because of the greens being above ground, the pesticide level would be similar to the strawberries. So… ORGANIC!

Something’s fishy about our pond

Aquatic creatures now call our pond home — yesterday I added four little goldfish, which cost me a total of 82 cents. They seemed a bit stunned at first about the new pond, but within moments they rediscovered each other and checked out the pond. Today they are quite active, so I have high hopes that they will thrive and grow. Supposedly they will grow fast when not cramped in a tank with a thousand other fish.

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I was distracted from the fish by movement in my peripherals…

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Two queen butterflies were busily dancing around each other and visiting our newly blooming Gregg’s mistflower (Conoclinium greggii). I tried to linger long enough to get a close-up, but it was noon, and the Texas sun was beating down on me. Would that I had a zoom lens for my camera (hubby, read this)!

queenbutterfly2.jpgStill, it gave me a chance to show how our butterfly garden is growing. It’s come a long way since the first fall digging of earth and the first little plants of spring. The colors are a garden in and of themselves.